working on understanding

29th October, 2007

me: m coming after tea :) hold on.
Saavi: yeah

52 minutes later

me: bak
Saavi: ok
me: what ok? shy? i mean why?
Saavi: what why? i said ok
me: leave it. got my msgs?
Saavi: i think so. the jokes were cool. i forwarded them on
me: which ones? i meant my mobile msg in fact.:)
Saavi: well i got 2 i think
me: 2? today?
Saavi: no, not today. yesterday or day b4
me: tell me what was in?
Saavi: both were same message, some shairy i think.
me: smile?
Saavi: what
me: subjet of sms :) i occasionaly re sent sms by mistake, due to the menu arrangement.
Saavi: cant u read what ur sending? be careful
me: plz excuse. Emergency.

49 minutes later

me: hello.. u offline??
Saavi: no im here. writing some official mails.
me: i said helo
Saavi: indians do like this no? when ur guest to a wedding, the hosts pay ur accommodation and food and everything.
me: thats the custom. thats what we call a typical Indian Shaadi :)
Saavi: yes. here its not so. we dont pay the accommodation of guests.

15 minutes later

me: love marriage itself is rare here :D n inter caste has to be love marriage.
Saavi: yes indeed. but they usually object, bcos parents have the biggest opinion there.
me: u ve to struggle in love always. i ve not to :) love means pain i suppose.
Saavi: sometimes. in ur type of marriage its there too, just starts after it. n i'm seeing lately women r controlling the men much. i've got some friends whose wives dont let them drink at all, dont let them go to parties. one even locked him at home. cos he wanted to meet some former classmate, man also.
me: strange once u settle in Europe. anwy its still better to be a man in India :)
Saavi: my friends r indian only n living in India. but ur right. u got the wife to serve u fully, n do whatever u wish, generally, n obey, n look after ur parents.
me: ya, bt thats not so much beneficial as it was 50 yrs ago. now there r women's rights.
u know marriage registration was not compulsory until last year :D it was working on understanding only :)
Saavi: wow
me: what made u wow?
Saavi: only last year it became compulsory
me: as the marriage takes place in front of about several hundred guests, one cant refuse. as he will have to face his relatives !
ya, me to was very surprised then.
so leaving time.
n why u late today? all the morning i signed in n out, in n out for u :)
Saavi: first, now difference in time is 3,5 hours, while till this week it was 2,5
second, whole morning i was busy with some documents n was out of office.
me: good, i was thinking of that handsome guy. maybe chatting with him. can i tell bout my sunday night dream?
Saavi: ok
me: its leaving time although :)
Saavi: yeah he is online too
me: thats why late answers?? anywy as i watched a movie
Saavi: i see
me: did u see Jab we met? the movie.
Saavi: no
me: especially the ear ring she wears !! cant recommend u to coz it wasnt much entertaining except shahid-kareena 's wonderful chemistry. still i liked it.
Saavi: :) i dont like both of them
me: ok. they've broke up in real life u know, just sm days bfore, maybe publicity stunt :)
Saavi: really? too bad. they fit each other.
me: i dont think so. cu then, maybe i wont come tomorrow. good night n
good day tomorrow !
wont leave untill u say See u :)
Saavi: cu
me: no c
Saavi: im on phone most of the time
me: see
Saavi: see
me: i know. all do it.
Saavi: yeah, work is like that.
me: ok good night , watch man coming :)
Saavi: good night