when in relation, behave properly

21^st September, 2007

me: hi
Saavi: hi
me: what u said last i read today, so first let me ask r u free or not?
Saavi: i will not be more free than this
me: means all works over ystrdy?
Saavi: i have work
me: so u’ll reply late?
Saavi: very probable
me: lunch?
Saavi: what ? ur asking me for lunch? ;)
me: i wish i could bt u r so far.. no girl in my city accepts. i think u will :)

12 minutes later

Saavi: sorry had work. its too hectic, maybe i would, for once

12 minutes later

me: wat for once means?
Saavi: for lunch
me: so u will come for once n then never again :(
Saavi: well i dont usually go on lunches n dinners with paryay admi
paray
or whatever
me: i dont think i m so much PARAYA now, its been bout 6 months chatting.
Saavi: paraya means anyone apart from my husband.
me: ohh so r u conservative or " sau choohe khakar billi haj ko chali ? :P "
Saavi: its not being conservative. its being loyal.
me: what i mean is when ur stomach is full, u dont need to go for food.
Saavi: its not that either. its just that when ur in relation u have to behave properly otherwise ur relation doesnt stand a chance.
me: so u mean i m misbehaving ?
Saavi: i dont mean u. ur not in relations, obviouslyy!
i am. so im saying when a person is in relation, they need to act in a right way
me: thats relieving, bt we ve no relation at all :) ?????
Saavi: well no. what kind of
me: i consider short answers rude.
Saavi: i also consider many things.
me: tell me :)
Saavi: better not
me: why? ok one thing i had to ask. u showed that video clip named toothpaste advt to ur colleague, right?
Saavi: not colleague. chat friend who told me the meaning.
me: he or she?
Saavi: he
me: good, so my guess was wrong. btw thanks for 6 6s video.
Saavi: its a must see
me: bad luck that i didnt bet on yuvi that day
Saavi: on whom did u bet yesterday
me: gibbs and dhoni. 1 hit 1 miss.
Saavi: so did u get anything
me: lost 8 RS. dhoni gained bt was lost on India's win !
i m optimistic, when i lose India wins :)

11 minutes later

Saavi: well. such a small bet.. 8 rs

me: we have to pay the diff of runs. gibbs made 18 runs less than gambhir. its for sm fun n to raise interest in match, n i ve no luck with money, so cant risk much :)
Saavi: i think the ad is just advertising the paper without much sense. both actors r good.
me: ok bt better they showed her back to us also :P
if there s no other sense, i mean.
Saavi: her back?
me: i mean the view male actor had when she was on the machine .
Saavi: it was not that. he thought she was taking copy of whatever is under her skirt. there wa smthing on her back
me: for me her back without nothing will do :P

5 minutes later

Saavi: without nothing yeah, so what will u do with her back only ?
me: i meant her body with that curvy back n no other objects like cloths etc.
didnt double A carry any meaning?
Saavi: whats double A ?

28 minutes later

me: busy again :)
Saavi: no. i asked u whats double A n never got reply.
me: oh sorry. didnt read status. felt like sleeping so took tea.
didnt notice double A on the zerox paper box ?
Saavi: oh right. i dont know if it has anything to do with the type of ad.

18 minutes later

me: u had no break today ? what bout that project?

5 minutes later

Saavi: its going on. i still havent had lunch
me: oh God, didnt allow u go for coffee or smthng?
Saavi: there is work
me: that i know, its good bt why do we work if cant have time to eat?
Saavi: i can spare the time but keep delaying. want to arrange it with my colleagues, not alone. there r many reasons
me: n the reasons r..
Saavi: i told u 2 of them
me: both r usual, i also do that. n others?

6 minutes later

Saavi: no others. nice wedding invitation. will send it to my husband
me: i knew u ll like it
Saavi: how did u know :P
me: tumhari impression jo padi hai us se. gharlu indian wife, loyal :) n ur thoughts bout shaadi too.
Saavi: yeah im just perfect. lunch came! we ordered again.
me: a joke for u.

a lady n shop keeper negotiating for the price of bra n panty.
shopkeeper: Bhabhi ji Bra me maine Aapka rakha, Lekin Penty me to aapko mera rakhna padega :P

Saavi: aapka aur mera kya
me: aapka means price suggested by her (literally) but has double meaning. mera means his price bt can mean his pen**
Saavi: i see.. any other, but good?
me: this wasnt?
Saavi: cant get the double meaning
me: i said it all.
Saavi: still i didnt get the funny thing
me: HAPPY MAN
What makes a happy man?
> Daughter on the cover of cosmo.
> Son on the cover of sports illustrated.
> Mistress on the cover of playboy
and ..
Wife on the cover of "missing persons"
Saavi: all's fine but the last
me: i guessed so. i dont mean it :) so its ok to have mistress :P
Saavi: no its not
me: bt u said all's fine :)
Saavi: if there is no wife at all. yes there is. i mean it is if there is no last line
me: now i think ur husband is not so lucky !
Saavi: why
me: in case he gets attracted to sm1, u ll object.
Saavi: of course. this is what every normal wife's reaction will be, not only mine.
so in this way u can say all husbands r not lucky.
me: what if u get attracted to sm1?
Saavi: im not thinking about this
me: if u both r satisfied with each other, no issue
Saavi: he will not be satisfied if i like sm1 else, same with me
me: i dont think having sex with sm1 occasionally means breach of loyalty to partner. the basis of relation should not be physical
Saavi: oh great. so u will let ur wife occasionally have sex with other men :) ur really very generous, first man i see who is so kind and big-hearted :)
me: it will hurt definitely, thats why i m taking my time to marry, i ll marry one who ll find no better man than me :)
Saavi: but ur contradicting urself. having sex occasionally with others should not be considered break of loyalty, in other words - it should be allowed in marriage.
in the same time, u want to marry such girl who will not do it.
me: i know, its tricky, it does hurt, bt at 27 hw to find sm1 who had no sex with others?
Saavi: let me tell u how it is. its ok and even recommendable if other's wife does it, esp if u like her and she does with u, then it doesnt count as loyalty breaching, but if its ur own wife, then its hurting and should be avoided.
me: maybe. bt its just bcoz u love her so much
Saavi: its rather not bcos u love her so much, but bcos u feel possessive, that she is urs, n also bcos it feels like there is someone better than u n ur loser. if she went to sleep with smone else.
n other few reasons also. thats my point of view of course, not necessary true.
me: losing is true. other reasons?
Saavi: i dont want to think now such things ok
me: public sex in stadium:) (link of the video)

6 minutes later

Saavi: nice one

5 minutes later

me: thanks, n sorry boss around. over timing today. maybe we ll chat tomoroow only
Saavi: tomorrow is saturday
me: on shaadi n its values :)
ok boss gone, so whats program this weekend?
Saavi: no prog, husband is coming tonight. so, the usual cleaning, cooking, also preparing my lesson for Tuesday. my student comes tuesday and thursday
me: do u teach also?
Saavi: i started this week
me: what do u teach?
Saavi: english :) i also took some translations to make, from english to italian, will be paid 4 this, so will make during the weekend.
me: interesting. u both earn n still u do this?
Saavi: we need more money. n also, i practice my english. and also, this student was after me for classes since one year.
me: i coud learn too
Saavi: english u dont need. u know pretty well.
me: its bout being close to u. why u need more money?
Saavi: :) to meet all our needs. wedding, furnishing the house, trips here and there, clothes, food, transport, all daily needs, going to restaurant now and then, to disco, movies
me: ok i got it
Saavi: is sab ke liye paise chahie
me: this way there's no end to earning
Saavi: there should be end. we r also paying a lot for the mortgage. we need good salaries if we have big salaries then there will not be additional needs.
me: i m opposite. i try to accommodate my needs as per salary :)
my half salary will go to loan payment from this month.
Saavi: u have taken loan ?
me: ya, for renovation of my father's home
so gotta leave now
Saavi: so it is done?
me: tough bt its time.
ya
Saavi: send pics from ur home
me: he wanted 2 nd floor. i ll send if i go there on sundy sm day :) its father's after all.
cu on Sunday good night take care teach well.
dont go close to ur student :P