Understanding Women - the online way !!

21st May, 2007


me: hi
Sofia: hi
me: so now u r there
hw's life?
Sofia: yeah im here but now and then busy so cant reply fast,
m having lunch,
how ru doing ?
me: its ok
m also on d job, but somewhat relaxed, so can chat here and there :D
what bout that " neeche utro " in ur status message ?
Sofia: i meant - come down..
from the top.
me: even if u don't know on top of what?
Sofia: yeah right
i dont know.
me: even i dont know
i just feel separated
from society
Sofia: separated in what sense
me: unusual for a 27 yr old
& people expect to do only good things,
separated means having very limited social circle, no friends, every relation is PAID for.

hey, i suddenly got offline.
r u still there?
or bored of my philosophy?
Sofia: im here,
little work,
why should u be with limited social circle :)
r u living somewhere in the woods ?
me: no.
i'm in a big crowded city!
any way what's local time there?
Sofia: so it seems ur really in the woods
here its 13:15 now
me: good.
r u indian or not?
Sofia: :) which city r u in ?
me: ahmedabad,state-gujarat
& i don't understand the emoticons u r using !


23rd May 2007


me: hi
hw r u today?
..........

busy?
Sofia: hi .....just little as im in office as usual !
me: so m i, any news from bulgaria?
Sofia: its raining since a week,

and at home also, the roof is leaking as we r on rent in old home and on the last floor.
me: its very hot here,
in india, its the peak of summer at about 40 degree celsius & no ac in my room!
Sofia: then how do u survive
me: just eagerly waiting for Monsoon.
we're used to the hot climate anyway, although its hotter since last few years :(
Sofia: i cant survive. i was there n april came n i was so hot so ran away from the university n went to shimla. then in may again, to massoorie n around, n when in agra, kept walking in wet clothes, when they dry, u go under the shower with clothes n get them wet!!

also put wet duppatta on the open door, like curtain, it helped :)
me: so u were born & brought up outside india?
Sofia: yup
here we get minus 20 in winter, n i do feel its worse than heat :)
me: plz hold on
i've to listen to my boss.
Sofia: k

9 minutes later

me: u've still not managed to own a home?
Sofia: i did, we bought in march.
me: than why stay in rented , leaking home?

10 minutes later

Sofia: cos the other is not furnished yet.
i've ordered the kitchen but it will be ready in 2-3 weeks.
and we r discussing design of bedroom n entrance with dezigners.

5 minutes later

me: is the bedroom so special?
Sofia: yeah. its small of size. 3x4 meters.
everything thats offered ready at the shops cant fit
modern furniture here is spacious n made for palaces or smthing.

5 minutes later

me: which field do u work in particularly?
internet sucks in my office, gets disconnected anytime.
what were we talkin bout?
Sofia: very nice provider, professional.
u asked in which field i work
im secretary general of FIABCI Bulgaria.
me: what's fiabci?

anyway, do u have a pretty sister like u?
Sofia: international real estate federation.
i have a pretty brother... :P
me: NOT Interested :(
hw's job scenario there for engineers?
i m a so-called electronics engineer!
Sofia: good i suppose
me: what suppose?
i thought its better in US. maybe Germany has somthing.
Sofia: they both r better.
me: what's ur job as sec.general?
Sofia: all. i jst have to do everything.
me: for example....
Sofia: all the correspondence, phone calls, visitors. maintaining the database, website, finances, invoices payments,
new members, preparing all sorts of documents,
reports, budgets, organizing seminars and all the events, handling all the issues.
me: r u there? net sucked again.
Sofia: yes, have u got anything from what i wrote
me: what did u last wrote?
please repeat
Sofia: change the provider...
u tell what u got last
me: u said u do all work, EVERYTHING.
& i can't change provider as i chat from office. its a govt. company.
Sofia: all the correspondence, phone calls, visitors. maintaining the database, website, finances, invoices payments, new members, preparing all sorts of documents, reports, budgets, organizing seminars and all the events, handling all the issues.
me: & all these r related to which dept.?
don't u think this chat is getting boring?
Sofia: we dont have departments.
me: i asked u full form of FIABCI.
anyway u watch hindi movies?
Sofia: the full form is international real estate federation. the acronym fiabci is corresponding to an old form of the name that is not kept any more but the acronym is famous and thats why it was kept.
me: nw i got it. so its a construction firm!!! that's why ur detailng bout ur home!
nw i should be leaving my office.
Sofia: ok
me: anything special to say?
Sofia: na :)
enjoy
me: good night.
what enjoy?
Sofia: good to u too.

31st May, 2007

me: hi r u busy?
Sofia: little, as usual.
me: Usual, this word annoys me :(
Sofia: u dont like usual stuff ?
me: ya, bt still have to do it, like 10 to 5.30 job of boring govt..office.
Sofia: u work less than me. i stay here 9:30 to 6. n its better in government office cos work is less :P

me: right and actual work is still lesser :D

bt the real problem is that its not suited to a so called engineer like me.

6 minutes later

Sofia: what do u want to work. is it this jobe or engineering ?
me: i've been appointed as engineer only, but presently posted in the head office of the company, so i'll have to wait for transfer to a technical position, or a better job offer.
Sofia: at least u have free time :)
me: tough for a hyperactive person to have free time :(
Sofia: well... :)
me: i need to work at least 12 hrs a day. & i've done it in private firms before.

7 minutes later

Sofia: haha :) take up another job.
me: sure whenever i get the guts to break relations with my family !!!!
m i boring u?

8 minutes later

me: r u gone?
Sofia: why do u need to break the relation with ur parents?
me: they want me to stick to the job as salary is good & to marry a homely girl chosen and passed by 'em.
Sofia: there r many things u can do, u can choose the girl urself and make the things as if they chose her, u can totally oppose them but u have to keep in mind this will make them unhappy and its possible they will have bad attitude towards ur future wife and u could stay in this job but take one more and do both.
me: what if i'm not ready to marry for now?

& if i marry someone not liked by them, i'm surely out of home.
Sofia: well thats not big deal, whats ur age >
me: i told u ystrdy, i think.
Sofia: was it 27
me: yes, we're almost same age!!
Sofia: well u might start think about marriage or wait but not very long.
me: i found u in born in 1980 community.

Sofia: ohh nice!
me: but its a tough decision :(
Sofia: i dont know.
me: what u dont know?
Sofia: how tough it is.
me: u r married :)
Sofia: it was different, im having boyfriends since i was 19.
me: u must be knowing, im not so lucky, i used to stay away from girls
Sofia: why, they r bad? :) or bite or poisonous ?
i will be back in 15 mins.

37 minutes later

me: r u back?
Sofia: i am
me: so wher did u go/
Sofia: to take lunch
me: nw i may go for tea....
u'r bout 2 hrs behind us!
Sofia: 2 and a half, sure, go.
i will also have chai after lunch :)
me : so i'll have to sign out, catch u later.

Sofia: ok bye.